Tuesday, June 26, 2007

all the times when we were close i'll remember these things the most

Just.

Does it get any easier?

Will I ever stop crying?

9 Comments:

Blogger Sarah said...

Yes. *hugs*

Now go DO something that makes you feel good. Anything from making yourself a cup of tea, to going to see that movie you've been meaning to see, to whatever.

3:26 AM  
Anonymous not jess said...

Yes. Yes. But it will take longer if you isolate yourself.

9:15 AM  
Blogger Janice in GA said...

It can. It takes longer than you might think. You can get into the habit of sadness. (Ask me how I know this). And when you have to turn resolutely to something new and persevere in spite of how hard it is, that's the worst part.

Let me know if there's ANYTHING I can do to help. I listen pretty good.

10:10 AM  
Anonymous Imbrium said...

Yes. It sucks for a good, long time, but it does get better.

Anything you need, darling - just say the word.

11:18 AM  
Anonymous Jasmin said...

Everyone says that the hurt will go away, and they're right.

At some point, you'll be angry. Once you can harness that angry energy and turn it into something productive.

(Mom likes to scrub when she's angry, I like to pull weeds and I have a friend who moves her furniture when she's angry.)

You may still hurt and be angry, but at least you'll have something to show for it.

Be strong and listen to some Alanis.

12:47 PM  
Blogger Debbie said...

It may not get easier or hurt less but it gets easier to bear. People can help. Animals can help. Crying and sleeping helps. Sunshine helps. Being kind to yourself definitely helps. There should be no "shoulds" now for you.

Blessings to you. The fact that you've reached out through your blog is one step towards beginning to heal. Keep stepping.

12:57 PM  
Blogger Zardra said...

While I only have a feeling of what it is that's happened, I wish I lived closer so I could lend you a shoulder. Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you.

5:30 PM  
Blogger dragon knitter said...

send me your addy. i'll send chocolate.

9:20 PM  
Blogger Ann said...

The thing that helps me get through..is to know that out of some of the really rotten times in my life have come the best times of my life.

It sucks..a lot...but you have lots of friends and people who care about you..that's what helps me get through the tough days.

Hugs...

10:49 PM  

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